Being pregnant is definitely not the time to get overanxious about the scales and what they read. So, how do we cope and not get overly upset about the creeping numbers?
We have to face the fact, that we WILL gain weight. Okay so now that is out of the way, how much are we going to gain and can we lose it all? I’m a firm believer of “anything is possible”. After my first pregnancy and 30 pound weight gain, I did get back to my pre-pregnancy weight within a few months. However, with this pregnancy (I’m gaining a little slower) I have been on modified bedrest for almost 4 months and I worry about how much I’m eating and whether I will tip the scales over my 25-35 pound gain range, once this is said and done. Point is, I’m with you about the weight worry and since I have more time to dwell on it, it’s driving me crazy. So I’m going to make some suggestions for both of us that we can follow and focus on something more important than those stupid scales or the nurse “tsk, tsking” us if we gained more than the recommended pound a week.
- The most important reality here, is that we are growing another human life! Okay, and if that isn’t enough we need to gain enough weight for his and your health.
- You’re pregnant, not FAT! Realize that many of those pounds are breasts (yay!), uterus, baby, placenta, blood volume and fat stores. It’s recommended to eat an average 300 extra calories a day (so we can’t literally eat for two=(
- If you find that you are bored and want to eat, call a friend or take a walk. If you are on bedrest, try some easy exercises like isometric contractions and ankle circles.
- If you do gain more than the recommended amount, let it go. Once the weight is there you can’t get rid of it, until baby comes. Since you can’t change it, release it and move on. This is the hardest for me since I like to dwell on it. Big waste of thoughts and energy. By the way, you will find that some months you will gain more than others as baby has growth spurts. Just keep that in mind when the scales take a huge jump.
- Take heart, you CAN lose the weight after the baby is born. Breast feeding can burn an extra 500 calories a day. So a very nice side effect.
Hang in there! Enjoy your diet, your pregnancy, and enjoy some ice cream (just not the whole half gallon!)